Mindful Parenting

Okay, so let’s just be brutally honest, parenting is tough! Considering it doesn’t come with a handbook on how to be a successful parent, we just do the best we can with what we know or what we’ve experienced along the way. I am now a mother of three, and one arriving very soon! I have a 16-year-old teen boy, and two young girls ages 6 and 5. I had my son at a young age, struggled to raise him while I was basically still growing up myself, but we made the best of it and that is a life experience I now know I was meant to go through. When I decided to have another child, I made sure that I was ready to be the mother I knew I wanted to be. More mindful, more attentive, more self-less, and more patient. I made a promise to myself and my new blessing that I would do everything in my power to be, for her, who I needed as a child. Trust me, when you decide to do something, you will be given all the necessary tests needed to take you to that level, or to help develop you into that mindset. Eight months after having my daughter, I found out I was pregnant again! Yes, two under two, two in pampers at the same time, and you can bet there were some very tough situations. However, looking back now, it was exactly what I needed to be who I am now. The mother I am, the patience I’ve developed, the strength and perseverance to know that I can overcome all hard situations, and the faith I now have in God and his purpose for my life. Parenting can be beneficial for your overall personal growth! While practicing Mindful Parenting, I find myself enjoying both spectrums of parenting, both good and hard. I do feel like l need to emphasize that “Mindful Parenting” doesn’t mean you don’t set rules or boundaries with your kids. It just means the approach you take is just in a way the kids can better comprehend, even at young ages. Personally, I feel like both parents and kids can relate to each other better and stay connected. I have a more extensive guide that will explain in better detail on why mindful parenting is a healthy option for parenting.